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Post by merrileem on Jun 13, 2020 13:06:32 GMT -6
Was contacted by hospice in Wichita that I need to contact a funeral home soon, as Darrell has all but stopped eating and they don't believe he will last long. I spent the morning crying; I am just so overwhelmed with everything. Please pray for me, for my finances without my Social security rider which will be taken away from me when he dies, and for me to get everything sorted out. I just want to stay in my room and cry right now and yell at everyone to stop calling me and just leave me alone!
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Post by eyeofthestorm on Jun 13, 2020 13:18:16 GMT -6
Oh, Merrileem! BIG hugs and prayers for you right now!
And breathe. When my FIL passed away, my MIL was able to continue to collect his SSI. You need to look into that possibility... when you catch your breath.
Right now, just hugs.
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Post by MammaMel on Jun 13, 2020 13:54:19 GMT -6
Merrilee, Sandra is right.I was worried about that as well. I discovered that at age 60 I can collect 71% of MJ's benefit. Which will keep me just fine, with less scrimping than I do now. I know that is just part of your anguish, but if you don't need to focus any energy on that, it will leave you more strength for the rest. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Post by ginakay57 on Jun 13, 2020 15:45:10 GMT -6
Hugs, as the others said you should be able to continue receiving his S.S. I imagine you are scared right now.
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Post by mountainma on Jun 14, 2020 9:28:13 GMT -6
Hugs, Honey! Praying for you right now, that God will calm your heart and thoughts and give you clarity of mind.
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Post by Pegasusf on Aug 15, 2020 19:33:34 GMT -6
Hugs, prayers to you.. Iām so sorry your going through all of this right now. Your also probably unable to be with him right now?
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Post by PinkCarnation on Aug 17, 2020 11:27:23 GMT -6
Merrilee, I am so very, very sorry.
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Post by fruitfulvine on Aug 17, 2020 11:57:56 GMT -6
Merrilee, you sure have been in my thoughts. Keeping you in prayer. ((hugs))
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Post by Maddy on Aug 29, 2020 15:03:15 GMT -6
I am so sorry to hear you are going through this. Praying for you Merrileem.
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