Post by MammaMel on Oct 26, 2021 15:30:02 GMT -6
Ladies, I am having trouble with anger.
My older sister was married to a vey bad man. He was to my mind depraved.
She left him after finding him cheating and again using kiddie materials.
He ruined her reputation at the church they attended to the point she could not attend.
he actually tried to ruin anyone he could not control in his family. Fortunately I was only part of his "family" for 2 years and I left at 17 to live on my own.
Well this glob, because he was not a man, married his mistress and with in 6 months she is now in a dementia ward and he had the hospital call my niece because he was in icu. This time it turned out to b e true and he was when she arrived n his death bed. She called her older sister. These 2 young women are as close to me as my sister is. He tried mightily to destroy them. He kept my sister and I apart and we finally reconnected a year or soo before MJ cratered.
Anyway I have such anger towards him for the hurt and pain he has caused these 3 women I love. I was aloof and blew him off. He offered me 2 years of college if I would move with them from MO to TX. I said no.
He can no longer cause pain but his girls now, have to go through his 3 storage units and apartment. Which may bring back the horrific things they lived through with this glob.
My sister's reputation will most likely not be repaired. I told her last night I believe there are 3 types of people in our lives. Those ho KNOW us and our character. Those who may not know us that well but care enough to ask us. and those who don't care to find out our side and they don't matter. The church she is in now, has gotten to know her, they know her history with this man and know she was blameless according to scripture for the divorce.
While I was praying for the girls, before I knew he had died, a quiet voice said what about the man? I can't do it of myself. He was never repentant, he gloated over the pain he caused. Like some Villain in a romance novel. The brother in
Daphne Dean or the creep in The Best Man , The step brother in Exit Betty.
Ladies, pray for me to not let this long buried bile come out and choke me.
My older sister was married to a vey bad man. He was to my mind depraved.
She left him after finding him cheating and again using kiddie materials.
He ruined her reputation at the church they attended to the point she could not attend.
he actually tried to ruin anyone he could not control in his family. Fortunately I was only part of his "family" for 2 years and I left at 17 to live on my own.
Well this glob, because he was not a man, married his mistress and with in 6 months she is now in a dementia ward and he had the hospital call my niece because he was in icu. This time it turned out to b e true and he was when she arrived n his death bed. She called her older sister. These 2 young women are as close to me as my sister is. He tried mightily to destroy them. He kept my sister and I apart and we finally reconnected a year or soo before MJ cratered.
Anyway I have such anger towards him for the hurt and pain he has caused these 3 women I love. I was aloof and blew him off. He offered me 2 years of college if I would move with them from MO to TX. I said no.
He can no longer cause pain but his girls now, have to go through his 3 storage units and apartment. Which may bring back the horrific things they lived through with this glob.
My sister's reputation will most likely not be repaired. I told her last night I believe there are 3 types of people in our lives. Those ho KNOW us and our character. Those who may not know us that well but care enough to ask us. and those who don't care to find out our side and they don't matter. The church she is in now, has gotten to know her, they know her history with this man and know she was blameless according to scripture for the divorce.
While I was praying for the girls, before I knew he had died, a quiet voice said what about the man? I can't do it of myself. He was never repentant, he gloated over the pain he caused. Like some Villain in a romance novel. The brother in
Daphne Dean or the creep in The Best Man , The step brother in Exit Betty.
Ladies, pray for me to not let this long buried bile come out and choke me.